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Posts: 321 (06/12/09 17:58:37) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Tags : None Hi everyone~its been a while I guess I was pretending I had a life LOL Anyway... I've been talking to this woman on-line for the past few weeks or so We really like each other a lot and look forward to the time we can meet The problem... ...She is in the Philipines She is poor (aren't we all) as am I I could visit her (when I win the megabux) But I asked her if she would come to the US when her kids are out of school She said yes Now what?? I haven't the slightest idea how to go about this or who to talk to Any ideas or suggestions would be very helpful and much appreciated There is no rush~This won't be happening for quite a while Thanx in advance
debbiedoescorona		#1	[-]
Posts: 15572 (06/12/09 18:41:37) SelfMedicating Giventofitsofrationality Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Agree to meet at a neutral public location like a restuarant or theater. Make sure she understands there is nothing guaranteed to happen once you meet.
Penslinger		#2	[-]
Posts: 322 (06/12/09 23:37:35) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Thanx Deb What I meant was, she expressed and interest in immigrating here And I have no idea what that involves
Traces IV		#3	[-]
Posts: 9414 (06/13/09 00:27:10) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Michi is Filipino ~ you can try sending her a message Best of luck, Pens - good to see you
puzzzled		#4	[-]
Posts: 508 (06/15/09 03:38:14) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	hmmmmmmmmmm ... my nature is 'i don't trust anyone' - so i'll say DEBBIE has some good advice ... meet in a public place etc. ... [feel i need to guard some of my response] second thought - keeping quiet on this ... DEBBIE gives good advice !!! just use caution PENS ...
Penslinger		#5	[-]
Posts: 323 (06/15/09 22:34:23) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	yes, of course But, travelling 7500 miles to meet in a public place requires some level of trust and commitment in and of itself
puzzzled		#6	[-]
Posts: 512 (06/16/09 03:55:31) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	how old is your relationship ???
Penslinger		#7	[-]
Posts: 324 (06/16/09 12:30:05) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	about a month when I get home, I'll post a pic She is adorable!!! And, yes, its a real pic I talk to her on webcam and on yahoo voice Like I said, I think too much (damn ADD) and I get ahead of myself If/when we meet and I bring her back here... ...isn't gonna happen for at least 3 years
debbiedoescorona		#8	[-]
Posts: 15581 (06/16/09 14:22:56) SelfMedicating Giventofitsofrationality Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	OK, at least we can rule out some wierd attempt at scamming you - you've actually seen her. Since it will be a long time before you meet her in person, make sure you don't commit to anything - things could happen to change your or her situation.
lenslady		#9	[-]
Posts: 1525 (06/16/09 15:16:12) Dylan...universe! Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	I agree with debs and puzz and just about everyone. Keep a cautious eye, and enjoy it for what it is now. Good luck dear.
Penslinger	ain't she cute??	#10	[-]
Posts: 325 (06/16/09 15:40:15) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	Sorry for the big files My cheap editor doesn't have resizing
puzzzled		#11	[-]
Posts: 525 (06/17/09 04:02:49) Reply Quote More My Recent Posts Message Me Connection Blocking Invite Ignore User's Posts	... YES! she is cute ... alls we're saying (like LENSY said) keep a cautious eye ... it's good that you have plenty of time before anything actually happens at least you get to talk all the time ... BUT - all that said ... i can see why you are anxious to meet in person !!! *OH! good luck on that megabux thing !!!*

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